What Sherry Argov doesn’t know about getting her to propose
Jerez Argov, New York Times The bestselling author of “Why Men Marry Bitches” and “Why Men Love Bitches” obviously knows a lot about men, or at least her readers like what she has to say. enough to make her a bestselling author. While you can certainly read his books and get some answers, do you really want to resort to being a “bitch” to propose to you? She is very honest in her book titles and says “Why Men Marry Bitches: A Women’s Guide to Winning Their Man’s Heart”.
Keep in mind the keywords you use: “A Guide for Women.”
Answer this: who is better equipped to tell you how to win the heart of YOUR man, a woman or a man? While there are definitely women in the world who will show you “how to please your man,” as the many raunchy videos on the internet demonstrate, getting him to propose is a whole different way.
Believe it or not, when it comes to marriage, a man is not governed by his sexual organs. Sex and marriage are not in the same bucket for a man. Yes, sex comes with marriage, but it is not the reason you get married. The reasons a man gets married are much more complicated than that and vary from man to man, but for most, it’s because his “gut feelings” tell him “she’s the one.”
Taking him to that point won’t work if you’re trying to be a “bitch” or manipulate him. Coercing or cajoling him won’t work either and will end up with him not only resenting you, but also walking away. A man’s instincts have served him for a long time. Your instincts do not go through your brain to analyze them as a woman’s intuition does, they are connected to your whole being. This is how he has survived as a “hunter” and has survived wars throughout the centuries. When his “gut instincts” kick in, he responds automatically, period.
Authors loved by the publishing industry because of high book sales are one thing. But anyone can claim “expert” status, write a book these days, and get published on Amazon. Who would you turn to for advice on how to “win” your heart, expert or not, men with a heart or a woman with unknown marital status?
What does your “woman’s intuition” tell you? Follow it for sure. Like a man and his “instincts”, following his wife’s intuition will never mislead him.