How to have an active love life
We all want an active love life. There are some couples who stay together but their love life is no longer active. Their life becomes like that of a brother and sister or complete strangers. But this can be avoided. There are reasons why a love life becomes inactive. But I can tell you that the main reason is problems related to sex. There are things that hinder a satisfying sex life. On the other hand, there are things that can greatly contribute to a healthy sex life.
What prevents a satisfying sex life?
1. Communication problem
Once communication in the home stops flowing smoothly, it affects sexual pleasure. If there happens to be an argument between you and your spouse, especially before going to bed, there will be no sex. That happens if the man is a good guy because if he is not, he will force his wife. But a love life wasn’t designed to work that way. So avoid discussing serious topics at night. Learn to say “I’m sorry” if you’ve offended your spouse. That will do wonders for you in your marriage.
2. Guilt prevents pleasurable sex
This mainly applies to unmarried couples. Normally, your conscience will not allow you to have sex if you are not married. I know that over time some people develop a blunted conscience. This is because in your heart you simply know that it is not right to have sex before marriage. So guilt prevents pleasurable sex. Sex was meant to culminate love. In fact, it is a celebration of true love. I can tell you that indeed sex is a very exciting experience. It’s nice and nice. This is how it was created to be. What can help you fully enjoy it is making sure it’s done within the perimeters of the marriage.
What can help you enjoy sex in your marriage?
1. Develop a healthy relationship
Learn to be kind to each other. Let what brought you together in the first place be lit. Keep it burning What attracted you to your partner? I’m sure it can be preserved. As a man, you should always be nice to your wife. She knows what excites her. Ladies, develop respect for your husbands. Men love to be respected by their wives. This is how God created it to be. God commanded: “Love your wives as Christ loved the Church…” Wives were given the duty to respect their husbands. Once things stay that way, your love life will be active.
2. Cultivate your love as husband and wife
Don’t let your love life fade away. Just visit a few places to eat together. Take yourselves to an unknown environment. Husband, do those little things that your wife likes. That can be bringing her some flowers or buying her those little gifts. I can tell you that she will make a big difference.
3. Learn to communicate during sex
Everyone knows what excites him. So communicate while making love. The important thing is your emotion or pleasure. Unless she communicates, the other party won’t know what she wants or expects. Sex is meant to be enjoyed. If it is not enjoyed, it brings many problems. You find that now there is cheating and that is adultery. It doesn’t matter whether or not there is everything you want in the house. Without satisfying sex, there will be problems. This is very serious. So you need to improve your communication.
4. Give quality time for sex
Don’t engage in sex when you’re in a hurry. Remember guys that ladies must be given time. It takes a while for them to be ready. So prepare them. Therefore, it is important to ensure that children do not have access to your bedroom or wherever you make love. Just take your time as a couple. Making love should not be a selfish game in which one does not care about the other’s satisfaction. A family is strengthened when the sexual life of the couple is good. Everything at home becomes smooth. I can promise you that if the husband and wife are happy at home, even the children enjoy life. But once either of you is unhappy, it will be noticed and should be avoided.
I have shared with you how to have an active love life. Although what I have shared is not conclusive, those tips can really help you. I have highlighted the obstacles to a satisfying sex life. If these things are avoided, you will have a pleasant and active love life. In addition, I have indicated things that can help you enjoy sex in your married life. Grow in loving your spouse. If you don’t work on your marriage, no one will. So don’t let your love life die while you’re watching.