The best way to ask single women out on a date
The way you ask a single woman out on a date can make a big difference in whether or not she accepts. Also, it is very important that you feel confident beforehand that she will accept your invitation to date.
Whatever you do, don’t expect a “no” answer before asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence in women. If you expect rejection, you can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way to ask single women out. These negatively phrased questions can cause you to fail when trying to get a date:
- I know you’re probably busy on Friday night, but if you’re not busy, would you like to go out with me?
- I guess you won’t be free to have lunch with me on Friday, will you?
- You don’t want to meet me for a drink on Thursday after work, do you?
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a “no” answer. Also, she might think you’ve already asked someone else out and been shot down, so now you’re trying your luck with her. For her to think this, even if it’s not true, puts you in a bad light.
It is best to make it easy for the woman you are asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say “yes.” Also, think positive when you ask her out. She thinks she’s going to accept and there’s no way she’s going to say “no.”
In my opinion, this is the best way to ask a woman out:
- “My friends have been excited about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I’ve never been there. Would you like to try it with me?” (This doesn’t really have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date.)
- There’s a nice symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a lot of fun to attend. Would you like to join me?
- Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and have fun. They have asked me to accompany them. I know it would be a lot of fun. Would you like to come with me?
I’m sure you get the idea now. These are direct questions and not pressured to make an appointment. They sound much better than the negative examples I gave you so you don’t use them to ask for a date. You do not agree?
I hope this tip helps you get more dates and happy hunting!